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Yowch. I like how they're like, "I don't wanna spend the summer with my kid! It hurts our happy marriage!" Um, didja think about that BEFORE you had the kid? And maybe that the underpaid childcare workers and the poor kids who are getting CHOMPED don't want to spend time with him either!!

what a terrific ad for birth control.

On the up side, maybe his son will grow up to be a teen angst movie star, like Christian Slater, whose parents also failed to get his biting under control.

http://www.livejournal.com/users/applehangover/199658.html

huh, very interesting. I can't say I have much sympathy for them. Jeez, I won't even get a pet, let alone a kid.
There seemed to be quite a sense of entitlement that irked me, like 'Why aren't other people looking after our child better! Where are the behavioural specialists, why do we have to look after our own child!' And you know they have a lot more money and material things than plenty of parents and kids out there. Childcare can only do so much on the limited money they are paid for their services (which the market/parents have dictated)

Having been bit twice during my teaching career, my sympathies are automatically with the people who expelled the kid.

Nice how he's more concerned about how the whole situation is going to inconvenience him, rather than figuring out that it's going to take a little more than a "time out" to curb this behavior. Salon likes to call their article "Mothers Who Think," but between this and all the articles Michael Chabon's wife has been writing for them, it's more like "Really Self Absorbed Parents."

And this is yet another reason to be childfree. I don't have either a kid who bites or gets bitten.

so, who's going to post this on the parenting board in Supernaturale, hahahaha

What is with this trend of referring to daycare as "preschool?"

Is it because there's less guilt attached, or more esteem?

Didja see the letters responding to the article?

I really don't want to sound like Dr. Laura here, but something truly disturbed me about Pollack's writing, in particular what it revealed about the priority of the child in their lives. The preoccupation of Pollack and his wife seem to be: How much time can we spend away from our child? How can we get him out of our hair for as long as possible in order to preserve our jobs, our intelligence, our sanity, our marriage? If they think this attitude isn't being conveyed to the child in some way, they're sorely mistaken.

wow, the kid is 2 and they are already sick of him! That's some bold ass shit right there. "Now our summer is totally ruined by this unruly biting fiend - sigh, feel sorry for me".

Just for the record, I was a biter as a child too.

Couldn't keep my mouth shut, as my 2 yo does not bite but has lots of unpleasant habits.

I was actually suprised after reading the article by the comments here, and on Salon. The piece was certainly negative, and it is unseemly to call your kids "little shit," but parent's get negative about their kids and say nasty things about them. It was refreshing to hear someone talk about this and not qualify every statement with a "but I love him more than the universe, and couldn't imagine life without him." Parents daydream about life without kids. Kids cramp our style. The more time you spend away from them, the harder it is to spend time with them. I congratulate him for breaking a taboo, and talking about his anger toward his son.

It's a lot cuter when Ayun Halliday talks about "Wolf-Mama", but she really means she can't stand her kids--in those instants. And a precocious 2 year old who draws blood could certainly try a parent's patience.

I frankly feel that this article wasn't aimed at the intentionally childless, but other foolish perpetuaters of the human race. Because the last thing we need is more people who don't know from shitty diapers telling us we suck. You're right, we do, we know it.

Besides, my mother called me "Little Shit" from about 13-18. And look how good i turned out.

ugh. i really want to have kids but the thing that worries me most is how they are going to be surrounded by little biting, yuppie douchebags as their peers and full-grown douchebags as the parents of those peers.

i saw something on the news about how it's some breeder trend that kids are getting are thrown out of free preschool left and right for asshole-ish behavior. disturbing.

i wonder that no one considers the possibility that he's either totally making it up or exaggerating. i don't know how many of you have read neal pollack, but he always bullshits. that's part of his charm as a writer.

Mr.E bit me once, i bit him back. We agreed that biting hurt and hurting sucks.
not that I endorse biting toddlers or anything ;)