I think the reason why I wasn't/am too gung ho to read it is based on an article that woman (hah how Clinton of me) wrote about bois for New York magazine. I remember highlighting the whole (overly) sexualized aspects above the positive genderfucking that comes out of it.

http://www.nerve.com/screeningroom/books/femalechauvinistpigs/, that article helps address some pretty good things. Although I haven't done more than thumb through the book so I should shut up.
& show my tits.