PS- I don't know the poster; her LJ was cross-posted. Though it is amusing that her userpic would suggest the non-make-up wearing hippie-type tht seems so derided by the more appearnace-oriented. I'm not advocating one way or t'other. Bit I will say that my personal experience has found the hippie-non-expecting-the guy-to-pay-for-dinner-types in much happier relationships/partnerships.