What's weird (from my own life story) is that I think I got that and turned it down. I was always the career-track girl, and he always wanted to be Mr. Mom. I never ever imagined considering staying home, and now that I have to actually face it, I want to be the one who *gets* to have the choice (rather than the one who *has* to make the choice). That said, I still can't imagine not doing something else besides mommying, whether that means working from home somehow or volunteering or whatever. In our case, it turns out that I'm the one with a job that could potentially be done from home, whereas his could not. Stay tuned for next month's exciting episode of What Will They Pick...