what you're saying about flexible work place and choice is so right on, but I am also so pissed that I HAVE to make this choice, while it's generally expected that men don't have to. even though there ARE men who are willing to do chores and be supportive of your success it's still the status quo that the man always works and the woman either works and has day care or doesn't work and is only a mommy. I want this hard choice to be a dad's choice too.